Let us stop acting like 25 is the end of your life. It is just another year of life that still growing and need to be nourished.

Let Us Stop The Stigma We Should Get Married Before or at 25.

Let us normalize finding love at 40s which is very normal and very okay. To find a partner in our life is not determined by society standard but by our truly heart. It is like we are not marriying our society but our partner. Do not push your self and heart too hard on this. Think that you have a unique role to play in the grand scheme of your life. You have the right to choose who are the one who could make you feel deeply connected and comfortable with to accompany the rest of your life. Not just rushing on things for the sake of making this work. Listen to your heart and mind. You totally have the right to decide your own life. Even if you got married at 20’s, which is totally fine, it is also very very fine and please enjoy the journey. You do this because of your decision and not being pressured by society. However, for you who have not get that experience yet, do not worry, the soul that lives in your body is yours and only yours, and was put in your body for a reason and to find others for a reason. So please nourish it and enjoy growing and loving together with it. If you cannot love yourself, how you could love for others? It start from you, love yourself.

Let Us Stop Saying That 25 is The Parameter to Justify Your Success.

Normalize the discovering and chasing new dreams in your 30’s is what we need to address. Who said that we should own a property like a house or apartment or a fancy car or fancy gadget or being a CEO at 25? We all start it differently, and how we could finish it in the same finish line? Isn’t it unfair? It does not always work that way that if we start it early we are going to finish it early. Some people might not even start anything at all in their 20’s but able to finish it strong at their 40’s which is very okay. On the other hand, some people already start it very hard in their 20s but just seems not having what they wanna it too at their target, and it is very okay also. We are struggle the different challenges and hardships in our life and somehow those are not comparable apple to apple with others. We shall not take every finish point on other’s life to be our finish line. Because we start it differently with different circumstances. To make other’s success point as a benchmark or as an inspiration or motivation is okay, but to immediately plot only of their success story without their struggles is wrong. It will make you feel deeply pressured only to portray their success as the result. The journey of your life is more important than your material accomplishments.

Let Us Stop Saying That Finding Life Purpose Should Be on 25.

Let us normalize finding our self in our purpose at 50s is still very okay. Nobody can look out at our life with exactly the same eyes as we do. That will make you think that taking a time deeply connected with your truly life will make you see the purpose of you going to find out in your own life. It doesn’t need to be rushing to find it before 25, but rather still living this life meaningfully will help you to find it at the right time. If you are tired, it is very okay to take a rest. Embrace the feeling; take your time, and once you ready you start it again. Start it with stronger and better feeling. Because believe me, you have a contribution to make to the world, even if you are not sure what it is, keep going. Hear your voice in your heart. Every year on your birthday, the special energy invested in you at birth is a present. It is a whole new energy you can use to keep trying and explore the best out of you to live forward. The real you is the inner you, and when you are living with the real you, your life takes on greater meaning. Happy finding your true calling and purpose in this life!

Sources: quote inspired by Tara Basro Twitter and 50 reasons Why Your Life Matters